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Uko wafasha abana gukoresha neza Telephone na TV
Muri iyi minsi, abana bareba TV cyane ariko kandi benshi bakoresha telephone cyane cyangwa se Ipad. Ibyo muri iyo article turi bwite “screens” Zishobora kuba ari izabo cyangwa ari iz’ababyeyi. Ikoreshwa ryabyo rero rikabije rishobora kugira izi ngaruka ku mwana:
1. kubangamira imikurire y’ umwana mu bintu bitandukanye : abana bareba ari bato cyane batinda kuvuga, ndetse mu gihe kizaza akaba yakwanga ishuri, gutsindwa cyane cyane imibare, kutamenya kwikoreraibyo akeneye ndetse no kunanirwa (...) -
Uko wakoresha neza umwanya w’ibiruko by’abana
Muri iyi minsi abana batangiye kujya mu biruhuko kandi ibiruhuko niwo mwanya mwiza ababyeyi baba babonye ngo batoze abana babo imico mbonera, imirimo yo mu rugo, n’ibindi. Nyamara kuri bamwe usanga aribwo abana bangirika cyane kuko ababyeyi batamenya uko bakoresha neza ibyo biruhuko by’abana
Rinda abana bawe kureba televiziyo cyane n’ibindi by’ikoranabuhanga : Hari ubwo umwana yicara imbere ya televiziyo cyangwa se agakoresha mudasobwa na telefoni zigezweho kuko ari mu biruhuko ukumva nta (...) -
Uko wakwitwara igihe umwana wawe yabyariye mu rugo.
Birashoboka ko umwana yajya mu ngeso mbi atari uko bamushutse cyangwa se ngo abe yafashwe ku ngufu, ni kenshi biba, aha babyeyi twibuke ko inshingano nyinshi ari izacu kuruta abakozi tureresha cyangwa se ba mwarimu babana n’abana igihe kinini, twumve ko akazi kose dukora ari ukugira ngo abana bamererwe neza, dore ko aribo shema ryacu.
Uko byaba byagenze kose yaba yafashwe Ku ngufu, yaba yashutwe, cyangwa yagendeye mu kigare cy’abagenzi be, ni umwana. Ni umwana wawe nta mpamvu yo kumutererana (...) -
Ibintu 8 by’igenzi abana bose bakenera ku babyeyi babo
Abana bakenera ibintu byinshi kugira ngo bakure neza bazavemo abantu bakuru bafitiye abandi akamaro. Ibi ni bimwe muri byo nkuko bivugwa na Jaques Salomé :
1. Kubaho: ni ukuvuga ibimufasha kubaho: kurya, kunywa, kuryama, guhumeka, kujya mu bwiherero.
2. Umutekano: umwana akeneye kurindwa, gukundwa, kumvwa, kubazwa icyo atekereza ku bimukorerwa. Umutekano no kubaho biri mu burenganzira bw’abana ku rwego mpuzamahanga
3. Kubana n’abandi: kugira aho umwana yibona bifite akamaro gakomeye ku (...) -
Ibimenyetso biranga umwana w’umukobwa ukururana n’abasore
Hari imyaka abana bageramo bakagira amatsiko y’imibonano mpuzabitsina. Iyo abana badakurikiranywe neza rero ngo baganirizwe ku bijyanye na byo, abahungu bashobora gutera inda bagenzi babo , abakobwa bakaziterwa. Bishobora kandi guterwa n’ikigare afite ndetse n’amakuru atizewe yakura ku mbuga nkoranyambaga, ndetse n’ibishuko bitandukanye mu gihe agiriwe nabi n’umuntu mukuru.
Umwana by’umwihariko uw’umukobwa utangiye gucudika n’abasore kuburyo watangira kumuba hafi ni ibi:
Guceceka: umwana usanzwe (...) -
Ibyo kwitaho igihe wonsa umwana mutiriranwa
Bijya bibaho ko umubyeyi ashobora kwirirwa atari kumwe n’umwana ukiri muto cyane uri munsi y’amezi 6, maze akamusiga ntamwonse umunsi wose,bitewe n’impamvu zitandukanye kandi umwana uri muri icyo kigero aba agomba gutungwa n’amashereka gusa nta kindi avangiye.
Ni gute umubyeyi yonsa umwana batiriranwe? • Umubyeyi agomba konsa umwana agahaga mbere yo kumusiga ngo agende • Ni byiza ko umubyeyi afata nibura isaha yo konsa umwana,mu gihe aziko amusiga buri munsi • Konsa umwana cyane igihe (...) -
Uburyo wategura umwana uzatangira amashuri y’incuke
Usanga iyo umwana ari hafi gutangira amashuri y’incuke ababyeyi batangira kwitegura bashaka amafaranga y’ishuri, ibikoresho n’ibindi ariko umwana we ntagire gutegurwa na guto ugasanga ibyo kujya ku ishuri bimwikubise hejuru. Nyamara ubushakashatsi bwagaragaje ko gutegura umwana ugiye gutangira ishuri bwa mbere ari ingenzi ndetse ko bigira umumaro mu kumuremamo icyizere no kwishimira kwiga
Mu gihe rero ufite umwana ugiye gutangira ishuri bwa mbere dore uko ugomba kumutegura:
Tangira (...) -
Ibintu bizakwereka ko umukozi afata umwana nabi
Akenshi abakozi barera abana usanga babafata nabi ariko ukaba utapfa kumenya ko babafata nabi. Bamwe muri bo usanga babakorera ibibi byinshi igihe abakoresha babo badahari, ariko bahagera bakigira abantu beza bagaragara nk’abakunda abana. Niyo umukozi yaba yiyoberanya hari ibimenyetso byakereka ko afata nabi umwana iyo udahari.
Muri iyi nkuru twabajije ababyeyi bamwe babaga bafite abakozi biyoberanya ariko bakaza kuvumbura ko bafata abana babo nabi iyo babaga badahari. Abo babyeyi bavuga (...) -
Uko wafasha umwana urya inzara akabireka
Abana bari mu kigero cy’imyaka ibiri n’itatu usanga akenshi baba barya inzara zabo ndetse hari n’ababitangira ari bakuru bafite imyaka umunani kuzamura. Nubwo kurya inzara nta ngaruka zindi bigira ku bwonko nkuko abantu bakunze kubitecyereza, na none usanga bigaragara nabi ndetse umwana akaba yarya imyanda iri mu nzara no ku ntoki. Gusa ushobora kumufasha akaba yabicikaho. Ingaruka zo kurya inzara Menya ko kurya inzara nta ngaruka nini bigira ku mwana ngo bibe byaguhungabanya ariko na none (...)
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Ese koko indwara y’ikirimi ku bana abaganga ntibayivura ?
Nubwo abantu bagenda bahindura imyumvire, hari bamwe usanga bakirwaza abana bakihutir aku bajyana mu bavuzi gakondo rimwe na rimwe baba batanewe na leta. Kuri iki gihe usanga hari indwara zifata abana zahawe amazina atandukanye muri zo harimo iyo bise “ ikirimi”. Uzasanga abayirwaje bihutira kujyana abana babo mu bavuzi batemewe bikaba byabagira ingaruka, nyamara iyi ndwara irazwi kwa muganga. Ibiranga umwana wafashwe n’iyi ndwara Iyi ndwara bamwe bita ikirimi ndetse ugasanga bamwe babyita (...)
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Icyo wakorera umwana w’ingimbi cyangwa umwangavu ukwiba
Ababyeyi bamwe usanga batizera abana babo kuko b’ingimbi n’abaganvu kuko babiba amafaranga cyangwa se bakababeshya kugirango babone amafaranga y’umurengera. Iyo umubyeyi abimenye usanga bimutera agahinda yibaza icyo yakora ngo umwana we areke iyo ngeso yo kwiba. Niba ufite umwana w’ingimbi cyangwa se umwangavu ukwiba, dore icyo wakora ngo acike kuri iyo ngeso : Jya umusobanurira ingaruka zo kwiba : Ku nshuro ya mbere ukimara kubona ibimenyetso bifatika ko umwana wawe w’umwangavu cyanwga se (...)
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Uruhare rw’umubyeyi mu gutuma ubwonko bw’umwana bukora neza
Kuba umwana yagira ubwonko bukora neza, ababyeyi be babigiramo uruhare kuva bakimutwita. Kuva icyo gihe ibyo ukorera umwana bagira ingaruka nziza cyangwa se mbi ku bwonko bwe ndetse na nyuma yo kuvuka zigakomeza bitewe n’ibyo umukorera. Kuva umwana akiri mu nda ubwonko bwe butangira gukorwa kugeza avutse, bugakomeza gukura kugeza ageze ku myaka 18. Reka tubanze tumenye imikorere y’ubwonko bw’umwana • Iyo umwana akiri mu nda, uturemangingo tw’ubwonko (tuzwi nka neurones), hakorwa utugera kuri (...)
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Ibyo kwitwararika igihe wasigiye umukozi umwana urwaye
Umwana wawe ashobora kurwara ariko ukaba utari bureke kujya ku kazi bikaba ngombwa ko umusigira umukozi wo mu rugo. Nubwo utahibereye ngo umwiteho nkuko bigomba, uba ugomba kugira ibyo witwararika kugirango ubuzima bw’umwana ukomeze kubucungira hafi. Gusobanurira umukozi neza uko aza guha umwana imiti : Niba umwana afite imiti kandi akaba ari buze gukenera kuyinywa udahari, ni byiza ko usobanurira neza umukozi uko aza kuyimuha. Ni byiza kandi ko ukomeza gukurikirana ukamwibutsa n’igihe uri (...)
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Igihe umwana wawe w’umwangavu yambara uko utifuza
Iyo abana bageze mu gihe cy’ubugimbi n’umwangavu usanga imyamabarire yabo, imyogoshere n’imisokoreze biri mu bitera amakimbirine hagati yabo n’ababyeyi kuko baba batabyumva kimwe. Gusa iyo ababyeyi batabyitwayemo neza usanga rimwe na rimwe bigira ingaruka ku mibanire yabo n’umwana no ku mwitwarire y’umwana muri rusange. Mu gihe umwana wawe ageze mu cyiciro cy’ubugimbi cyangwa se ubwaganvu akambara mu buryo utifuza, hari uburyo uba ugomba kumutwaramo kugirango mutagerwaho n’ingaruka mbi. Jya (...)
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Uko wafasha umwana urya gahoro cyane
Hari ubwo usanga umwana arya gahoro cyanbe ku buryo umuha ibiryo akajya kubimara byahororombye. Icyo gihe ntugomba guterera iyo kuko hari ubwo umwana aba afite ikibazo kibimutera. Muri iyi nkuru turareba zimwe mu mpamvu zitera aban kurya gahoro cyane nuko wabafasha. Impamvu zituma umwana arya gahoro cyane n’icyo wakora Kuba arangaye : Kuba umwana afite ibindi bintu bimurangaje nka televiziyo, abandi bana bakinira iruhande rwe n’ibindi bishobora utera umwana kurangara ntiyite ku byo ari (...)
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Uko wafasha umwana w’umwangavu wishoye mu rukundo
Abana bageze mu gihe cy’ubugimbi n’ubwangavu usanga rimwe na rimwe batangira kwishora mu rukundo haba mu bo bangana ndetse no mu babaruta bubatse ingo. Iyo umubyeyi utabaye hafi umwana we ngo amugire inama usanga bigize ingaruka ku mwana kuko muri myaka baba bashyushye cyane. Dore icyo wakora ngo uwmana wawe azitware neza mu rukundo rwo mu bwangavu Ganiriza umwana wawe ku by’urukundo rwo mu bwangavu : Kuganiriza abana bageze mu bwangavu no mu bugimbi iby’urukundo usanaga ari ibintu (...)
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Uko wotoza umwana kwita ku nshingano ze
Iyo umwana akuze adatozwa kwita ku nshingano ze, usanga n’ubundi iyo akuze bimugorana ko yamenya inshingano ze ngo amenye no kuzitaho uko bikwiye. Gutoza umwana gukora imirimo akiri muto niyo nzira nziza ababyeyi benshi banyuzamo gutoza abana babo kuzaba abantu bakora neza inshingano zabo, nyamara usanga bitoroheye buri wese. Gusa birashoboka ko wabimutoza hakiri kare. Imbogamizi ababyeyi bahura nazo mu gutoza abana kwita ku nshingano Hari ubwo umubyeyi agerageza gutoza umwana we gukora (...)
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Uburyo bwiza bwo gusukura imyanya y’ibanga y’umwana
Nkuko umuntu mukuru akenera gusukura imyanya y’ibanga ye ngo yirinde ingaruka ziterwa n’isuku nke niko no ku mwana muto yaba umuhungu cyangwa se umukobwa bagomba gukorerwa isuku mu myanya ndagagitsina. Guhindurira umwana ibyo wamubinze ; igihe wabinze umwana jya umuhindurira akimara kubinyaramo cyangwa se abyitumyemyo. Iyo umwana umutindijemo iranje cyangwa se pampers kandi yayanduje bituma imyanda igera ku gitsina cye ikaba yazamutera infections. Kumuhanagura ujyana inyuma : mu gihe umwana (...)
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Imyitwarire y’abana ku myanya ndangagitsina yabo nuko wabafasha
Hagati y’imyaka itatu n’itanu uzasanga umwana atangira kugira imyitwarire runaka ku myanya ye ndangagitsina. Hari n’abatangira ku mwaka umwe ukabona ko afite amatsiko ndetse ko ashaka kumenya byinshi ku myanya ye y’ibanga. Nkuko Madame Charlotte impuguke mu by’imitekerereze abivuga, icyo gihe umwana aba agomba gufasha kuko hari ubwo ababyeyi babifata nabi bikaba byahungabanya umwana. Charlotte avuga ko umwana afashwa hakurikijwe ikigero cye kuko buri cyiciro umwana agezemo aba afite ibyo yibaza (...)
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Uko wacyemura amakimbirane aba hagati y’abana bavukana
Abana bavukana cyane cyane abakurikirana ndetse n’abana babana niyo baba batavukana , hari ikigero bageramo bakajya bagirana amakimbirane,bagashotorana,ndetse bamwe bakagirirana amashyari. Iyo abana bagirana amakimbirane ya hato na hato usanga bakubuza amahoro ndetse bikaba byanabaviramo kurwana. Niyo mpamvu uba ugomba kugira icyo ubikoraho mu rwego rwo kwirinda ayo makimbirane. Reka tubanze turebe impamvu z’ubwo bwumvikane buke : Ubusanzwe umwana yubaka uwo ariwe kuva afite imyaka itanu (...)